Autism & Kids
What does worry me about the above sorts of tests is that children are often a reflection of their parents. Lets assume that 50% of their makeup is nature, in effective pre-programmed not to be a "feeler" or have "Extraversion" (Sociability), however, if in their household the parents are introverted and not feelers and given that the child is introverted then its obvious they will simply be more introverted and far less "feeling" in the Jung type of way.
In my life I believe I have met 2 properly Autistic children (both boys), 1 was diagnosed and the other had all the hallmarks and I believe was institutionalised in his late teens (depressive breakdown I believe). One thing that has always struck me is that they always appeared beyond reach. If you can imagine an extraverted person being right at the front row of a theatre, then the introverts 4 rows back.... these kids were in the darkness of the back row, possibly hoping they were forgotten. Worst of all, marginalised, excluded and picked on by the other kids for being different. Its sort of a self fulfilling cycle.
Anyway, in the case of these 2 kids when you really parachuted down into their world and started talking about what made them tick you could see everything they were about. Lots of logic, lots of thinking and they were generating their own "social structures" which didn't include people as connectors and interfaces. Structures without people.
Quite possibly it would seem that these 2 kids were both high functioning, as they were very bright. But to me all as they needed was more socialisation, because no matter what, we all have to interact with society and they were being alienated to the point where it could become ingrained almost permanently.
As with the concept of managing schizoid behaviour the focus should be on where conceivably you or that person is, and where you would like to be (In terms of functioning social interaction) and understand where you currently are... and then take small steps along that path. As an example, let’s say you give them a pet. It gives them a form of bonding connection (an allowable expression) other kids become interested in that pet, they come round, and you incentivise it etc. In effect the pet is the conduit to social interaction, inclusiveness and bonding. It is a bridge.
iNTj (Mastermind) 8w7 (Maverick)